Leeni film.
Vott SEE film silitas mind küll totaalselt vastukarva!!! See oli ikka... No... Ma ei leia sõnu. Kui juppideks lahti võtta ja ära seletada, miks ma ei salli:
a) naised selles filmis on psühholoogiliselt häiritud ja täiesti ajudeta
b) abielu on nagu mingi Püha Graal, kuhu suunas takistustest hoolimata
iga hinna eest peaks võitlema.
c) abielus inimesed on selle eest ikkagi õnnetud. Aga miks? MIKS??! Sest nad kiirustasid.
Oojee, loogikat. Ühesõnaga, abielu on vajalik, kiirustada ei tohi, aga kiirustama peab.
d) 30 on juba selgelt see piir, kust edasi on sinu võimalused õnnelik olla minimaalsed.
e) ÜKSIK INIMENE EI SAA OLLA ÕNNELIK. Punkt. Kõik. Ja nii on. See on lõplik.
f) NAISED SELLES FILMIS ON PSÜHHOLOOGILISTE HÄIRETEGA AJUDETA JALAMATID
Ma võiks tuhat aastat jätkata.
Nii, teeme selgeks. Ma ei ole armastuse või meeste või suhete kui selliste vastu. Ma OLEN vastu sellele, et igas viimases kui USA komöödias näidatakse naisi kui meestenäljas eesleid, kelle ainus eesmärk on võimalikult kiiresti ÜKSKÕIK MILLINE eksemplar endale koopasse tassida ja ta ära kodustada.
Okei, armastus on tähtis, suhted on tähtsad, jaap-jaap. Aga no palun! PALUN! Ma pole muide sugugi selle vastu, et naine esimese liigutuse teeks või midagi sellist, aga no... Okei, eks igal naisel vahel juhtub seda meestele tunnete külgepookimist, väikestest asjadest suure tegemist...
Ma täiesti tunnistan seda. On juhtunud küll. Samas on mul alati olnud kainet mõistust end mitte psühhopaadina näidata.
Ja hoolimata sellest, et see käitumine, kui vinti maha keerata, on naistele omane... No ma ei saa rahulikult mõelda sellele filmile. Miski ajas ikka põhjalikult marru.
Ma pole padu-feminist, aga... Mis mõttes, te teete nii originaalsest teemast nii stereotüüpe ja imalaid... Imalat KÕIKE täis filmi???
Hated every minute of it.
Naised on ikka päris nõrgad ja päris lollid selle filmi kohaselt. Who didn't know that.
Vaatasime koos Leeni, Maarja ja Ivariga.
Midagi neile, kes veel poindile pihta ei saanud:
Beth: I just need you to stop being nice to me unless you're gonna marry me.
Gigi: Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.
Gigi: Hey Conor, It's GiGi, I just thought that I hadn't heard from you, and I mean how stupid is it taht a girl has to wait for a guy's call anyway, right? Cause we're all equal right? more than equal. more women are accepted into law school now then men. Call me, oh this is GiGi, call me.
Ainsad asjad, mis ma üles noppisin ja veel vähemalt kuidagi asja ette lähevad:
Gigi: We are all programmed to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk that means he likes you.
Gigi: I think I've figured it out. Remember when I went out with that notary public and he cheated on me and then Anastasia from upstairs told me about how her boyfriend cheated on her in the beginning then he totally changed and now they're married and crazy in love?
Beth: I thought that guy was a process server.
Gigi: No notary. Anyway my point is, Anastasia is the exception, not the rule. We have to stop listening to these stories because the rule is most guys who cheat on you up front don't really care about you very much.
Beth: I thought that guy was a process server.
Gigi: No notary. Anyway my point is, Anastasia is the exception, not the rule. We have to stop listening to these stories because the rule is most guys who cheat on you up front don't really care about you very much.
Alex: So trust me when I say if a guy is treating you like he doesn't give a shit, he genuinely doesn't give a shit. No exceptions.
Gigi: Maybe his grandma died or maybe he lost my number or is out of town or got hit by a cab...
Alex: Or maybe he is not interested in seeing you again.
Alex: Or maybe he is not interested in seeing you again.
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